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Saturday, April 14, 2012
Saturday, January 22, 2011
Family Date Night
Since none of us has posted in quite a while...
Last Friday, we had a Family Date night. Normally, Friday is our date night for just us & we leave the kiddos with my mom & dad. We didn't really have a great FHE that week, so we decided to make our date night into FHE. Kind of :) We came up with some really fun games to play at home with things we already had around.
That was about it. But it was really fun & we got to spend some serious quality time as a family!
Last Friday, we had a Family Date night. Normally, Friday is our date night for just us & we leave the kiddos with my mom & dad. We didn't really have a great FHE that week, so we decided to make our date night into FHE. Kind of :) We came up with some really fun games to play at home with things we already had around.
- Bean bag toss- I labeled different sized boxes, from a stacking Christmas box set, with different point amounts and placed the boxes in different places for us to toss the bags into. The kids got a kick out of that one!
- Mini Golf- we used old wrapping paper tubes & a soft ball to hit into the boxes from earlier, turned on their sides.
- Mini Bowling- we got the kids a mini bowling set a couple of years ago, but haven't really played with it all that often, so we finally did! You could easily make a bowling game with water bottles & a small ball to roll at them :)
That was about it. But it was really fun & we got to spend some serious quality time as a family!
Wednesday, September 29, 2010
Boards (or lists) of Ambition
This was a lot of fun. We made a "List of Ambition" for our house. But you can do this as a couple or a family for ambitions you have for places you want to go, talents to develop, characteristics you want to have in yourself, where you want to be or what you want to have in "x" amount of years, etc. Braden's brother inspired us with his board of ambition. He has a picture on his board of the house he wants someday, the car he wants, where he wants to go to college, etc.
For example, we want a porch swing once we extend the length of our porch.
We would like to put window boxes below our windows.
We want to put these pretty moldings above our bedroom windows.
We want to get an outdoor outlet put on the house.
We want to paint in our kitchen...
Stuff like that.
We would like to put window boxes below our windows.
We want to put these pretty moldings above our bedroom windows.
We want to get an outdoor outlet put on the house.
We want to paint in our kitchen...
Stuff like that.
I think this would be really fun and good to do with kids. You get to teach them about goal setting whether it's for something of monitary value or spiritual or something they want to develop about themselves. Then they get to learn how to work towards those goals and see the end result. Plus you get to see what their ambitions are! It's fun to learn these things about your spouse too.
Tuesday, September 21, 2010
Service
I took this idea from "My Mix of Six" but it was great! We watched this Mormon Message video and then for our activity we chose a family in the ward to bring some treats to. It was fun going to this family's house. When they asked for what reason they were found deserving of such a treat, we just told them that they just came to mind and we thought they would enjoy the treats. We ended up talking with them for about 20 minutes and really got to know them better. It was a lot of fun.
Wednesday, September 1, 2010
Minute to Win it Activity
I saw this on "my mix of six" and I thought I would make some playing cards to use for this game. If you use all 8 playing cards you will need the following:
some sort of timer
3 balloons
1 deck of cards
a glass or a bottle
some cookies
a few feathers
3 or 4 ping pong balls
9 glasses
the front of a cereal box cut up
12 pencils
1 balloon
1 garbage can
Minute to Win It Cards 1
Minute to Win It Cards 2
some sort of timer
3 balloons
1 deck of cards
a glass or a bottle
some cookies
a few feathers
3 or 4 ping pong balls
9 glasses
the front of a cereal box cut up
12 pencils
1 balloon
1 garbage can
Minute to Win It Cards 1
Minute to Win It Cards 2
Monday, August 30, 2010
Date Night
So, Arrie is only 10 mo. old so she won't get much out of our Family Home Evenings. Tonight I want to talk about dating in our marriage. I found some articles on LDS.org and we will read them and plan some dates that I plan and Braden plans. While we watch movies after Arrie goes to bed sometimes, I think it is important to have a planned evening or time that is set-aside for a date. I think that once you are married the dating and "courting" is even more important. You need to constantly be learning about one another and finding out more about your best friend. Below is what we are going to go over. Any ideas you have on this topic, comment please. :)
Geok Lee Thong, “Dating at Home,” Liahona, Jun 1999, 16
In Malaysia, the idea of dating one’s spouse after marriage is almost unheard of. My husband and I first learned about this counsel from books and magazines and from American Church members who lived in our branch in the city of Kuala Lumpur. When we heard of the good that can come to a couple who continue to court each other after marriage, we decided to try this “foreign” idea.
In the beginning it was easy for us to spend an evening together because we had no children to worry about. However, when our children began to come one after another, we had to devise new ways to date each other. Because finding a baby-sitter for the evening is difficult, we have had many dates at home after the children are in bed. These home dates are in no way inferior to those we occasionally have outside our home.
We have found a number of activities we enjoy doing together. Sometimes we watch a videocassette while munching snacks and sipping soft drinks, just as we would at the movie theater. Other nights we play computer or board games. Our evenings spent in these activities always end with laughter.
One regular activity is putting together our family photographs on a large poster. Later we frame the finished poster and hang it on our stairway wall. We now have quite a few posters, so we rotate them from time to time. Evenings spent making posters are not only fruitful, but they also bring warm and sentimental feelings to our hearts.
One Valentine’s Day I prepared a candlelit dinner for two. With soft music in the background, the atmosphere was truly romantic. Dating each other regularly has helped increase the romance in our marriage.
Our list of activities for home dates continues to grow. We have found that dating each other is about finding ways to spend time together and about taking time to build and nourish each other. When days are difficult and challenging, I look forward to our home dates when we can spend time together just talking.
My husband and I have found this “foreign” idea to be of great help in strengthening our marriage.
New Article
We don’t have to go out or spend a lot of money to have fun and build memories.
My husband and I, with our two toddlers and small baby, lived in a university ward. Often, our leaders stressed the importance of weekly dates for Mom and Dad alone. As students on a limited budget, however, we couldn’t afford a date, not to mention a baby-sitter. We decided we would have to wait to apply the counsel when we could afford to do so.
One wise leader changed our minds. He convinced us that weekly dates are vital to a young couple’s marriage. Time spent together sharing interests helps a couple grow closer and gives them a chance to relax and take a break from daily stresses. Perhaps most important, dates help a couple build a reserve of love. Filled with memories of good times and strong positive feelings, this reserve can help them through difficult times of stress, disagreement, and trial.
My husband and I finally determined to follow this leader’s counsel, even though most of our dates would need to be the stay-at-home type. Alternating the responsibility of planning the dates, we scheduled these evenings on the calendar just as we would any important meeting. We tucked the kids into bed a little early on the night of our date, then began to build our reserve of love.
Since variety is one key to successful dating, we brainstormed a wide range of simple, inexpensive activities we both could enjoy. Many of them would work even for couples whose children are beyond the stage at which they can be tucked into bed early. Here are a few ideas that may work for you, or perhaps these will help you come up with ideas that suit your own needs and preferences as a couple.
1. Play a favorite board game, or challenge each other to childhood games—such as marbles, jacks, and hopscotch. Play Wii (Wii Resorts specifically)
2. Make cookies and take some to a neighbor’s house. Place them on the doorstep, then knock or ring the bell and run to hide. For Hollidays
3. Read a book, the scriptures, or the Ensign together. If you prefer, read a book during the month, then discuss it in depth on your date night.
4. Make a list of the goals you want to accomplish in one, five, ten, or twenty-five years. Seal these lists in envelopes with a “to-open” date written clearly on the front. Make Boards of Ambition or a "bucket list."
5. Make holiday (Christmas, Easter, etc.) decorations for your home. Make Christmas gifts for family members or friends.
6. Plant a garden or a tree.
7. Dance to old records or to music on the radio. Learn new steps together. Go country dancing
8. Plan a special midnight supper, barbecue, picnic (summer or winter), make-your-own-pizza party, or candlelight dinner.
9. Make popcorn. Watch a favorite television show, video, or athletic event. Spice up a movie - we watch movies together all the time. Make it more special somehow.
10. Refinish a piece of furniture for your home.
11. Read past entries from journals. Look at old photo albums and high-school yearbooks. Learn about your spouse’s childhood and teen years.
12. Plan an upcoming vacation or a second honeymoon—even if it’s only imaginary.
13. Check out a library book about the constellations, then go look at the stars.
14. Create your own recipe for homemade ice cream. Try it out!
15. Wash the car.
16. Design your dream house or dream yard. Sketch your plans, then share your ideas. Make a music video
17. Sing together, with or without a piano. Harmonize, blend. Sing rounds. If you have musical instruments, play a duet.
18. Watch or listen to a talk show, educational program, or readers’ theater.
19. Make a collage of your life together to hang on a wall in your home. Include pictures, tickets, programs, and other objects that mean something to both of you. Make a nice wall collage of pictures.
20. Trace your family history to learn whether your ancestry ties together anywhere.
21. Work together to finish one of those monumental tasks that you have put off forever: paint a room, wash windows, or something similar.
22. Read or reread your patriarchal blessings to each other.
23. Make a big cookie (the size of a cookie tray) for each other. Decorate it to say “I Love You!”
24. Teach each other something new, such as a principle of geometry or a bit of a foreign language.
25. Plan for the handling of your estate. Make wills - legalzoom.com
26. Paint matching T-shirts. Tie-die
27. Read magazine articles or a book based on gospel principles, or one on improving your marriage. Do the assignments or exercises included in the book or articles.
28. Make a soap-carving gift for each other. Ice cream sculpting with those square cartons of ice cream
29. Put together a picture puzzle.
30. Develop an inexpensive hobby together.
31. Have an indoor sports tournament, altering some of the equipment as needed. Try miniature golf in a living room obstacle course, balloon volleyball, or bowling with plastic drinking glasses and a child’s ball.
32. Make chalk drawings on the sidewalk.
33. Record on tape how you first met, recollections of your first date, memories of your wedding and honeymoon, and thoughts about your first few weeks of marriage. It’s interesting to discover the different impressions your spouse remembers.
34. Watch the sun set.
35. Plan a foreign country night. Learn about different customs. Prepare authentic food from the country, and learn how to say “I Love You” in the native language.
36. Fly a kite.
37. Prepare a tribute for each other, gathering letters of appreciation from those who know your spouse. Make it into a “This Is Your Life” night.
When you have used up these ideas, spend another evening brainstorming a new list. With creativity and effort, some advance planning and determination to carry out those plans, your stay-at-home dates can help build that important reserve of love every marriage needs.
Geok Lee Thong, “Dating at Home,” Liahona, Jun 1999, 16
In Malaysia, the idea of dating one’s spouse after marriage is almost unheard of. My husband and I first learned about this counsel from books and magazines and from American Church members who lived in our branch in the city of Kuala Lumpur. When we heard of the good that can come to a couple who continue to court each other after marriage, we decided to try this “foreign” idea.
In the beginning it was easy for us to spend an evening together because we had no children to worry about. However, when our children began to come one after another, we had to devise new ways to date each other. Because finding a baby-sitter for the evening is difficult, we have had many dates at home after the children are in bed. These home dates are in no way inferior to those we occasionally have outside our home.
We have found a number of activities we enjoy doing together. Sometimes we watch a videocassette while munching snacks and sipping soft drinks, just as we would at the movie theater. Other nights we play computer or board games. Our evenings spent in these activities always end with laughter.
One regular activity is putting together our family photographs on a large poster. Later we frame the finished poster and hang it on our stairway wall. We now have quite a few posters, so we rotate them from time to time. Evenings spent making posters are not only fruitful, but they also bring warm and sentimental feelings to our hearts.
One Valentine’s Day I prepared a candlelit dinner for two. With soft music in the background, the atmosphere was truly romantic. Dating each other regularly has helped increase the romance in our marriage.
Our list of activities for home dates continues to grow. We have found that dating each other is about finding ways to spend time together and about taking time to build and nourish each other. When days are difficult and challenging, I look forward to our home dates when we can spend time together just talking.
My husband and I have found this “foreign” idea to be of great help in strengthening our marriage.
New Article
We don’t have to go out or spend a lot of money to have fun and build memories.
My husband and I, with our two toddlers and small baby, lived in a university ward. Often, our leaders stressed the importance of weekly dates for Mom and Dad alone. As students on a limited budget, however, we couldn’t afford a date, not to mention a baby-sitter. We decided we would have to wait to apply the counsel when we could afford to do so.
One wise leader changed our minds. He convinced us that weekly dates are vital to a young couple’s marriage. Time spent together sharing interests helps a couple grow closer and gives them a chance to relax and take a break from daily stresses. Perhaps most important, dates help a couple build a reserve of love. Filled with memories of good times and strong positive feelings, this reserve can help them through difficult times of stress, disagreement, and trial.
My husband and I finally determined to follow this leader’s counsel, even though most of our dates would need to be the stay-at-home type. Alternating the responsibility of planning the dates, we scheduled these evenings on the calendar just as we would any important meeting. We tucked the kids into bed a little early on the night of our date, then began to build our reserve of love.
Since variety is one key to successful dating, we brainstormed a wide range of simple, inexpensive activities we both could enjoy. Many of them would work even for couples whose children are beyond the stage at which they can be tucked into bed early. Here are a few ideas that may work for you, or perhaps these will help you come up with ideas that suit your own needs and preferences as a couple.
1. Play a favorite board game, or challenge each other to childhood games—such as marbles, jacks, and hopscotch. Play Wii (Wii Resorts specifically)
2. Make cookies and take some to a neighbor’s house. Place them on the doorstep, then knock or ring the bell and run to hide. For Hollidays
3. Read a book, the scriptures, or the Ensign together. If you prefer, read a book during the month, then discuss it in depth on your date night.
4. Make a list of the goals you want to accomplish in one, five, ten, or twenty-five years. Seal these lists in envelopes with a “to-open” date written clearly on the front. Make Boards of Ambition or a "bucket list."
5. Make holiday (Christmas, Easter, etc.) decorations for your home. Make Christmas gifts for family members or friends.
6. Plant a garden or a tree.
7. Dance to old records or to music on the radio. Learn new steps together. Go country dancing
8. Plan a special midnight supper, barbecue, picnic (summer or winter), make-your-own-pizza party, or candlelight dinner.
9. Make popcorn. Watch a favorite television show, video, or athletic event. Spice up a movie - we watch movies together all the time. Make it more special somehow.
10. Refinish a piece of furniture for your home.
11. Read past entries from journals. Look at old photo albums and high-school yearbooks. Learn about your spouse’s childhood and teen years.
12. Plan an upcoming vacation or a second honeymoon—even if it’s only imaginary.
13. Check out a library book about the constellations, then go look at the stars.
14. Create your own recipe for homemade ice cream. Try it out!
15. Wash the car.
16. Design your dream house or dream yard. Sketch your plans, then share your ideas. Make a music video
17. Sing together, with or without a piano. Harmonize, blend. Sing rounds. If you have musical instruments, play a duet.
18. Watch or listen to a talk show, educational program, or readers’ theater.
19. Make a collage of your life together to hang on a wall in your home. Include pictures, tickets, programs, and other objects that mean something to both of you. Make a nice wall collage of pictures.
20. Trace your family history to learn whether your ancestry ties together anywhere.21. Work together to finish one of those monumental tasks that you have put off forever: paint a room, wash windows, or something similar.
22. Read or reread your patriarchal blessings to each other.
23. Make a big cookie (the size of a cookie tray) for each other. Decorate it to say “I Love You!”
24. Teach each other something new, such as a principle of geometry or a bit of a foreign language.
25. Plan for the handling of your estate. Make wills - legalzoom.com
26. Paint matching T-shirts. Tie-die
27. Read magazine articles or a book based on gospel principles, or one on improving your marriage. Do the assignments or exercises included in the book or articles.
28. Make a soap-carving gift for each other. Ice cream sculpting with those square cartons of ice cream
29. Put together a picture puzzle.30. Develop an inexpensive hobby together.
31. Have an indoor sports tournament, altering some of the equipment as needed. Try miniature golf in a living room obstacle course, balloon volleyball, or bowling with plastic drinking glasses and a child’s ball.
32. Make chalk drawings on the sidewalk.
33. Record on tape how you first met, recollections of your first date, memories of your wedding and honeymoon, and thoughts about your first few weeks of marriage. It’s interesting to discover the different impressions your spouse remembers.
34. Watch the sun set.
35. Plan a foreign country night. Learn about different customs. Prepare authentic food from the country, and learn how to say “I Love You” in the native language.
36. Fly a kite.
37. Prepare a tribute for each other, gathering letters of appreciation from those who know your spouse. Make it into a “This Is Your Life” night.
When you have used up these ideas, spend another evening brainstorming a new list. With creativity and effort, some advance planning and determination to carry out those plans, your stay-at-home dates can help build that important reserve of love every marriage needs.
Tuesday, August 24, 2010
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